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Aug 22

LA SOLEDAD Y LA "ITIS"

Muy acompañado en Laos.

Sin animo de hacer dogmas, solo contaré como yo lo vivo. Quiero hablar de dos de las mayores fuerzas que han movido mi comportamiento. Curiosamente son completamente antagónicas.

La necesidad de estar acompañado cuando estas solo como el uno.

Y la necesidad de estar solo cuando es muy dificil dejar de estar acompañado.

No se cual de las dos fuerzas es más poderosa, pero las dos pueden llegar a ser tremendas. Y no deja de ser un fastidio que lo que un día desechas al otro lo vayas buscando.

La soledad, que jodida, mis temores previos eran todos ciertos. Puede hacerse muy duro viajar de un lugar a otro si nadie te espera en ningun sitio, si nada tienes que hacer con nadie alli donde llegas. Lo dificil no era conocer gente. It is much more complex than that. It has to be someone that you find interesting, you bring something or can understand you. Sometimes knew many people with that kind of script repeated:
Where are you from? What,s your name? where are you going next? and such and such, without feeling accompanied reached.

The fact is that to be happy, not have to be rich or handsome, but if it is necessary to have a satisfactory social life.
Autofoto in San Francisco.


Good, for the “ITIS” is as strong as the Loneliness. That what the ITIS? I explain. If you're traveling, put, with your dear friend two weeks PEPE, and if you have the vision to make your breaks almost certainly skillfully'll end up taking “PEPITIS”. And that may be reciprocal. It's like a mutual endurance wear, and also a need for intimacy unmet constantly.

Long ago I heard on the radio that people got married because I thought well I would not have the feeling of being alone. Not if you have much or little of a certain, but what I am convinced that the “ITIS” often reason in divorces.

Some time ago, a dear reader of this blog told me the reasons for their divorce:

” Imagine, you and I live together. Your today I let this cup here. Me, the truth, bothers me a little, but as it is silly and I want to get along with you do not say anything. The next day it again to stop there, yet I can not tell you anything. And the other. And the other…
Here in the day 40, I'm already fed up with your glass, and also in a bad mood. And exploded, toads and snakes are out. It turns out that I had not noticed, but you were cabreandote also because I left the plate on the table. And I do not say anything. Until today, you jump with all your accumulated bad milk. And we have a brutal discussion.

And of course, people will say: What a pair! Never heard them argue until they divorced!”

1 comment

  1. Cobi

    Council to make a good living: when you find something you like about the person you live with, have to decide whether to communicate your displeasure at that moment, or shut up forever on this topic.

    Once that thing displeases you become part of the living, once you've let it go to your house, have to assume that you had before and now having cast is already part of your relationship. A territory lost and unrecoverable.

    So of course.

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